Having Fun Again , www.giftsforangels.co.uk

I recently went to a 80s Fancy dress charity night with my husband, my 2 brother-in-laws and sister-in-law and we had such a great time, laughing and dancing all evening it really was a brilliant night. As much as I woke up the next morning feeling rather worse for wear, this was as a result of the cocktails I was quenching my thirst with, not the overwhelming guilt that I used to wake up with some time ago. I can't tell you when it started to feel OK to have a good time, but I can tell you that it does happen. You do learn to laugh and see the fun in life again, even as I shared the hilarious pictures of our night with my 3 lovely girls I felt OK. I know it has been 7 years since Lola died and although I miss her every day, I am able to laugh and have fun without feeling guilty and I am able to enjoy a few drinks without bursting into tears at the end of a night! Time does not ease our pain, but it does help us get used to it. This pain that is constant we learn to carry with us every day, it is part of our new make-up and we can not live without it, nor would I wish to.

Our 1980's Fancy dress night in aid of St Barnabs Hospice, Worthing W.Sussex., organised by Josie & Andy from "Funkylush Events" .http://www.giftsforangels.co.uk

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